So you are online and hoping to find a partner, but first you have to get to that first date. To get to the date you have to send that first online dating email. Your goal is to get the woman to reply and engage in a conversation. The first email is you first impression and often your only opportunity to get in the door.
When you write that first online dating email, be creative, stand out from the other men. The other men send emails like “hi beautiful”, “can you chat”, among many other lame on liners. The best emails and the ones that are read are the ones that show you paid attention to her profile. If you can be humorous all the better. Think about what would make her smile. Write that first online email like you were having an actual conversation. Use good grammar, don’t abbreviate like you are sending a text message.
It really is a numbers game but you can increase you chances by getting that first online email right. Take a chance, put something out there but don’t write a book. Don’t try to sell yourself and point out all of your wonderful qualities either. She can find those out later. In the beginning you should be playful, yet respectful. What would you say if she was in front of you. Don’t worry about rejection or what she may think. If she does not reply or is rude, well it’s not like you ever have to see her. Just think in your mind this one word, Next!
